There is one thing we all agree on — men and women see sex differently in a relationship. It is the oldest story in the book. Women love connectedness and emotion while men are more focused on their physical needs. The question, however, is not how vital sex is for a man, in general, but how important they consider it in a loving and healthy relationship. 

Open any beauty magazine and you’ll see article upon article about what women want in relationships and how to get it. But there’s rarely a space for men to express their relationship needs. And women need to know. So let’s create that space. Here. Now. Maybe it can be the first domino to start a conversation. You may or may not agree with these. What’s more important is that we talk about it. The following are based on my sessions coaching thousands of men on and offline as well as my own wants.