When you understand the various tips and tricks that will make her want you, miss you, then you’ve got the key to make her crazy for you.
There’s a big difference between the legit and the sneaky way to get your girl to want you badly. Ask yourself if you want her for a quick one-night stand or if you really love her and want her forever.
If you choose the latter, here are a few specific steps that will help draw her in for keeps.
HOW TO MAKE A GIRL WANT YOU BADLY
POINTER 1 – LOADED WITH SELF CONFIDENCE
If you are going to accomplish anything in life, you’ve got to permeate a certain level of self-confidence and worth. When you’ve got visible confidence, not arrogance, you have the edge over the other guys, because girls are naturally attracted to men who aren’t afraid to take the lead.
There are guys who just can’t muster the courage to show their confidence in front of women. If that’s you, then you’re going to have to fake it until you make it. If you want a woman to think about you around the clock, you MUST show her you know what you want, and you are secure in being you.
To work on your confidence, you can practice talking with numerous girls. Practice doesn’t make perfect, but it will make you better. This will help you take the panic out of your next important date.
POINTER 2 – BE TRUSTWORTHY
A major problem with guys trying to impress a girl is they aren’t reliable. They show up late or say and do something different from they’ve agreed to do. Sure, looking good will get you in the door, but you can’t use it to hit a home run.
In a girl’s eyes, if you can be trusted, you will become magically attractive. So, if a woman needs to vent or she needs help with something, make sure you are the man that gets there first.
Show her you can take care of her, and you will be in the running to make her crave you, and only you, badly.
POINTER 3 – FLIRTING IS ATTRACTIVE
Keep in mind, this one needs to be in moderation. Flirting is a good route to help build your self-esteem and put you in the green when socializing. Just make sure you are being real with your flirting. Fake flirting will get you nowhere fast.
Don’t forget; your purpose for flirting is to get her to laugh and to open the door for intimacy. When the air is light, it’s much easier to get closer, faster.
POINTER 4 – MAKE SURE YOU DON’T SMOTHER HER
When you are around a girl every second of every day, you are going to get old, fast. Giving her space allows her the time she needs to miss you and think about you. The idea is you want her to want you, and she’s not going to get that opportunity if you won’t get out of her face.
She needs her individuality and needs to be respected for that. Besides, why would you want to be with a woman that is needy and doesn’t have the means to stand on her own two feet?
As tough as this may seem, it’s vital you give this girl her space to roam free. If she wants you, she will let you know, and if your plan of action is a success, she’s going to want you badly.
POINTER 5 – MAKE SURE YOU ARE HER ESCAPE
If there is any pointer you need to remember, it’s this one. This means you need to be the guy she confides in whenever she has good or bad news. If she picks up the phone and calls you, then you’re it!
Make sure you give her the safe place she needs, when she needs to open up to you about something. Give her a special nickname. Make her laugh, make her trust you, and most of all, make her want you.
POINTER 6 – DROP HINTS YOU WANT HER
She can’t accurately read your mind, so it’s important after you’ve established the basics, you let her know your intentions.
Why do you need to do this sooner rather than later?
For the disturbing reason, you might just get kicked to the friend zone. That’s a very difficult place to escape from; that’s for sure.
It’s important you move fast here. Let her know with your body language and subtle flirting that you aren’t interested in being cast to the friend zone.
Ask her out on a few dates and make sure you let her know, in moderation, you are thinking about her. Do thoughtful things for her and make sure you are there for her, no questions asked, when she needs you.
Open the door, so she’s comfortable with you, and when you are ready, take it to the next level and ask her out on a well-planned romantic date.
POINTER 7 – USE YOUR MANNERS
There’s just something endearing about a man that makes it his priority to treat a lady with respect. This means you should be opening the car door for her, helping her with her shopping bags, giving her your jacket when it’s chilly, and making sure she walks on the inside of the sidewalk away from traffic.
POINTER 8 – TEXT COMMUNICATION
It’s so easy to reach out and talk to her these days with instant access. Texting and messaging her is to your advantages because it lets her know you are thinking about her, even when you are busy at work.
Don’t overdo it, but you can establish some sort of routine to increase her interest in you. Start by texting her good morning and good night, no matter what. This is a clever move because it means she is thinking about you when she wakes up and when she hits the hay at night.
That’s not quite enough, so you should send her a message at least once during the day. Keeping this message at a random time is your best route. Give her a little anticipation during the day, wondering when you are going to reach out.
A little mystery works wonders in the wildly wonderful world of dating.
POINTER 9 – MAKE SURE SHE WANTS MORE
It really doesn’t matter if you are texting back and forth or you’re out on a real date. It’s vital you always leave her wanting more of you. The last thing you want is for her to get bored of you and, worse yet, forget about you altogether.
When you leave conversations on a high note, she’s going to be excited and left just a little short. That will boost her eagerness to communicate with you again. You are forcing her hand to think about you.
So, make sure you never run out of things to talk about. Better yet, make it a practice to start an interesting story and then make an excuse you’ve got to go, and you’ll have to finish it another time. This is an excellent tactic to make her want you badly.
POINTER 10 – TELL HER HOW YOU FEEL
According to studies, women are more attracted to guys who aren’t afraid to share exactly how they are feeling. This openness is magnetic, and if you can tap into this one with this special girl, she won’t be able to keep herself from wanting you.
Of course, this is a risk, but it’s better to find out sooner than later if she is on the same page as you. This bold move is going to make her want you like no other man, or it’s going to be the card that calls it quits.
POINTER 11 – HOP ON A ROLLER COASTER
This one has a little bit of science behind it. If you are looking for someplace memorable to take her on your first date, you should take her on a roller coaster. It’s the united endorphin release that makes the connection.
Bottom line, she’s going to see you as more attractive than you already are after the ride.
POINTER 12 – MYSTERIOUS IS MAGNETIC
Some people say playing hard to get is a good thing, and others chalk it up as a complete waste of time. According to the experts, playing hard to get will make most women more interested in you. The issue is making sure you find the right balance.
It’s not easy to back off on the eagerness and increase the evasiveness slightly. Make sure you don’t play too hard to get, or it will backfire.
POINTER 13 – CHILLAX
Turning on the calm is a good move for your health and your love life. In general, women are more attracted to guys who are relaxed than those who are uptight. If you show her you are always stressed out, you’re going to stress her out too, and that’s not a good thing.
Not to mention, calm men are said to have a better genetic base, you know, the part that helps make better babies down the road.
POINTER 14 – BRUSH YOUR TEETH
This one goes without saying. One of the first things a girl sees on a man is his mouth, his teeth. If you’ve got bad breath or bad teeth, it’s going to be an automatic turnoff. Who wants to kiss a gross mouth?
POINTER 15 – MAKE HER LAUGH
Laughter is the best medicine, and it works wonders when it comes to charming women. Studies show it’s the guys who can make a girl laugh that beat out any other type of guy, no matter how much money he makes.
Laughing helps her distress. Besides, who doesn’t like a good laugh?
POINTER 16 – SEXY SCRUFF
I’m all over this one. It’s that sexy scruff that’s going to make her want you more. Few women are into beards, but you’ll have a tough time finding many women that aren’t a fan of that sexy scruff look. All you’ve got to do is skip the shaving for a couple days, and you’ll be seen as super attractive.
POINTER 17 – WORK ON THE CONVERSATION
It’s tough in our world to hold a real-life conversation because technology seems to have taken over. If you want to impress her, make sure your verbal skills are bang on. This means you need to be able to hold an intelligent conversation with her, using your big-boy words.
Might sound a little silly, but it’s totally true.
POINTER 18 – MAKE SURE YOU’VE GOT GOALS
Not only should you have goals, but you should also have a plan to reach them. Driven men, who set regular targets and hit them, are seen as focused and successful in the eyes of women.
It really doesn’t matter what goals you have. Just make sure you share them with her, and as a bonus, ask her what goals she’s set for herself.
POINTER 19 – PRACTICE BEING THOUGHTFUL
When a man remembers something a woman says and acts on it, it’s just magical. There is nothing more exciting than being surprised by a man. This isn’t about spending a lot of money to impress her.
It’s the little things that count.
Listen to what she says and make sure you do what you can to show her you are thoughtful, without expecting anything in return. Well, maybe a kiss would be nice.
SIGNS YOU’RE BREAKING THROUGH AND MELTING HER HEART
To say women are tough for men to read is an understatement. It’s very difficult to figure out whether she’s into you.
Here are a few clues you might just be breaking through and into her heart.
CLUE ONE – YOU ARE A PRIORITY
When a woman is putting you first, responding to your text message and phone calls without skipping a beat, you are slipping into her heart.
If you didn’t matter, she wouldn’t care if she ever got around to answering your text or returning your phone call.
CLUE TWO – LITERALLY SAYING SHE WANTS A MAN LIKE YOU
This is an in your face clue that you are on her radar. Women tend to avoid the issue of liking a man by making sure they don’t speak directly about it. Instead, they might talk about Mr. Right and make sure you know that man is just like you.
When she continues to talk about Mr. Right over and over, you know you’re in poll position.
CLUE THREE – FRIENDS UNITE
When her friends are your friends, it’s a clear indicator you have broken through. There’s no question that, when a girl likes you, her gal pals are going to be the first people to know. They are likely going to try to hook up with you through social media just to keep in the loop.
Don’t worry; the messages will be short and sweet because that’s part of the girl code.
When she becomes involved in your social circle and vice versa, you can count that as a strong clue.
CLUE FOUR – PERSONAL SPACE SHRUNK
When a girl wants to get closer to a man, she’s going to make sure she puts herself out there and gets a little closer than “friends” would. This means, when she is standing beside you in the coffee line, she might “accidentally” on purpose brush her hand up against yours.
When you are sitting in a restaurant, she’s going to lean just a little closer than she normally would. Pay attention to these signs because you’ll miss them if you aren’t actively looking for them.
CLUE FIVE – YOU CAN COUNT ON HER
If a girl always finds a way to be with you, no matter what, even if you call her for a ride totally drunk in the middle of the night, she’s showing you she wants you.
Maybe she had a long day at work but manages to keep talking with you because she’d rather do that than look refreshed in the morning.
CLUE SIX – EX-GIRLFRIEND TALK ARISES
When a woman wants to know everything about you, including everything you’ve got to say about your exes, it’s a good sign. She’s asking these questions because she wants to know if you are boyfriend material. Make sure she knows you are.
CLUE SEVEN – YOU MATTER
If she is excited to celebrate your life milestones, a promotion at work, or your birthday, then you’ve got a girl that’s truly craving a deeper connection with you. This girl wants to make sure you know that what makes you happy makes her happy too, and that’s magical.
CLUE EIGHT – SMILE-A-HOLIC
If she’s always smiling around you, even when she’s had a bad day, she’s telling you she really likes you. Better yet, if she goes out of her way to make you smile, that’s even better. A girl that loves smiling is happy, and that is vital to the health and wellness of any relationship.
CLUE NINE – IT’S GOT TO BE PERFECT
When a woman goes out of her way to check and double check reservations to make sure everything is perfect, she’s obviously into you. Showing up 5 minutes early and making sure she looks hot for you are other signs she is ready to take your relationship to the next level.
CLUE TEN – THERE’S A TOUCH OF JEALOUSY
If you happen to be talking about a girl you think is pretty, and you can see she’s being a little reactive, that’s a fabulous sign. It means she cares what you think, and she wants to be the girl in your brain, nobody else.
CLUE ELEVEN – SHE PAYS ATTENTION TO YOUR WORDS
When a girl pays attention to every word out of your mouth, and she makes a point of remembering the tiniest details, you can be sure the girl in front of you wants you more.
Don’t be surprised if you get a special gift on your birthday that you might have casually mentioned months ago. She’s putting a vested effort into making sure you understand what you say and think matter to her.
FINAL WORDS
It’s not easy to make a girl want you badly, but where there’s a will, there’s definitely a way. Use these tips and techniques to help you navigate through the wild and exciting world of dating to create a plan of action to get that special girl to want you badly.
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